A Rom-Com for Spooky Season!

A Rom-Com for Spooky Season!

I don't like scary movies. Or, at least, that's been my line for at least twenty years. I don't like to be scared and if scary movies aren't scary, they are dumb, and I don't like to watch dumb things either. But my husband has been waging a quiet campaign to get me interested in horror. When we first got together, he offered to watch all seven seasons of the Gilmore Girls if I would agree to watch Alien and The Conjuring. Then we watched Get Out and Midsommar, which are incredible pieces of cinema that just happen to be scary. Lately, we've been watching our way through the Mike Flanagan shows on Netflix, like Haunting of Hill House and Midnight Mass, which are basically eight-hour-long explorations of Flanagan's feelings about addiction and religion with some scary stuff thrown in. And...like...maybe I'm starting to like scary things? Scary-ish things?

Not that Lisa Frankenstein is scary, per se. There's a lot of ickiness: bugs, decay, grave dirt, blood, and multiple electrocutions. But while Lisa may appear to be a plucky rom-com heroine at the beginning of the movie, by the end she's something else entirely. She's the villain, and it's fabulous.

Did Someone Say Pidge?

Did Someone Say Pidge?

For this month's movie review, I wanted to review a college romance since the whole Game Day Series is now available. I googled around, trying to find something suitable, but I wasn't super excited about any of my choices. Then I mentioned it to my husband and he immediately said, "So you're gonna do Beautiful Disaster, right?"

Bridgerton 3.2: Regency Romance is so Weird

Bridgerton 3.2: Regency Romance is so Weird

Don't get me wrong, I love regency romance. It's one of the genres I enjoyed the most when I first started reading romance novels. I love pretty dresses and horseback riding and elegant castles as much as the next girl, but the thing that really makes the genre sing is the threat of immediate expulsion from polite society if one steps even a toe outside the bounds of permissible behavior. But of course, "permissible behavior" doesn't include anything fun, which means all the fun stuff has an illicit air that makes it even more delicious. As a reader, I find myself trapped between envy for the sumptuous lifestyle regency MCs enjoy, and grateful that I don't live in a world where my only purpose is to be pretty enough to capture a mate. In some regency novels, that tension snaps when one of the characters steps way outside of respectability and finds acceptance for who they really are. Those characters have the ability to really touch readers (or in the case of Bridgerton Season 3, watchers) who empathize with the struggle to fit in, even in our more permissive society. Those are the books that are remembered for their powerful character development, instead of their heat level.

All that to say ... I understand why there wasn't more sex in this season, but I really would have liked more sex in this season.

Spoilers below!

Bridgerton 3.1: What a Tease!

Bridgerton 3.1: What a Tease!

Bridgerton has been one of my favorite series in the past few years. I read the Julia Quinn novels when I was first getting into romance. When the first season came out I was thrilled with the color-blind casting, the lush costumes and settings, and the soundtrack made up of classical versions of pop songs. Season two took a little longer to get me, but by the time Anthony tries to slap a bee off Kate's shoulder I was hooked. Netflix, clearly knowing what they had, decided to split season three into two parts. What a tease! I was intending to put off watching part one until part two was streaming, but I recently found myself with a free night and a hankering for regency romance, so I went for it. There are spoilers below for the first two seasons, so proceed with caution!

Let the Music Sweep You Away

Let the Music Sweep You Away

I recently started something doing something really fun. It's called Music League, and it's a social app where you and your friends share songs in a theme and vote on which ones you like the most. Though it can be a little damaging to my ego ("Bring Me to Life" is currently not performing well in the Goth round), I've really been enjoying engaging with music in a way I haven't in years. As I search for songs to fit themes like "Problematic Bops" and "Sunrise on Lake Pontchartrain," I'm rediscovering music I forgot I love and listening to brand new stuff that makes me feel like a teenager again. Maybe that's why I was drawn to watching the new Rom-Dram The Greatest Hits on Hulu.

LiLo's Unlucky in Love

LiLo's Unlucky in Love

Like many Americans of European-mutt descent, I'm enamored with Ireland. While I'm peripherally aware that it is a high functioning nation with a robust tech sector, there is a part of me that continues to believe that Ireland is ruled by a fairy king and everyone who lives there is a poet-farmer descended from leprechauns who subsists on Guinness, potatoes, and British tears. My husband and I visited in 2021, and the week we spent there did nothing to dispel this fantasy. Everyone we met was incredibly friendly, every stone was infused with history, and it was exactly as green as expected. Take a look at this terrible picture I took out of a bus window because I was so thrilled by the reality of cows and hedgerows:

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